The fluid — which isn’t pure pee, but rather is a combination of urea, uric acid, and creatinine — is released by the Skene’s gland, which sits at the lower end of the urethra.
Although the terms “female ejaculate” and “squirting” are sometimes used interchangeably, Dr. Jill McDevitt, PhD, CalExotics’ resident sexologist, notes that some people argue that ejaculating and squirting are two different things.
She explains: The Skene’s glands, G-spot, and urethral sponge are all located in roughly the same area of the body.
“Typically, if you stimulate one thing, you likely stimulate them all.” And if you stimulate the Skene’s gland? Sometimes folks with vulvas squirt!
That’s like asking what an orgasm or sex feels like: Everyone will have a slightly different answer.
According to Engle, “Some people say it feels nothing like an orgasm. While others note that it feels [similar], but slightly different from, an orgasm.”
“It’s intense. Like an extreme release. For me, I orgasm and then if my husband keeps touching my G-spot, then I squirt. It’s not really a similar sensation for me,” says Abby K., 42.
“Due to the pressure on the urethra, some people report feeling like they need to pee right before they squirt,” says Engle.
That’s the case for Joannie N., 29. “Right before it happens, I literally feel like I’m going to wet the bed. While it’s happening it feels like a really wet orgasm,” she says.
I remember having wet spots and I believe I gushed a few times with a partner or two in the past several months, but this most recent squirting was surreal. I have never felt so much wetness or gushed so much than I did this time. Each time was like an intense orgasm over and over and over again for what was maybe 30-45 minutes... I have no idea honestly. I finally collapsed on the bed, my body exhausted from all of the gushing O's.
Funny thing about that body exhaustion is that it really energized me. I had a good deal of energy for most of the day as I often do when I have sex multiple times in a night.
I am telling you... go find out what all the fuss is about. Get yourself a partner to help you gush and/or squirt. You won't be sorry!
I am Large and In Charge... take charge of you and squirt on!
Love, Scarlet
